Sixty years ago

 Our family used to go to Lake Wohlford in California. We had a small cottage trailer that stayed there all year.  It looked like a little white clapboard house with green trim as I recall.  We visited every summer through my teen years.  The trailer had an awning and a wooden deck, a front yard, and a view of the lake.  Mom and Dad slept inside.  They boys slept outside on the deck on army cots with shipping blankets to cover up with and joked and giggled at night until we got yelled at.  When we got there, Dad would sprinkle the dirt yard with the hose to knock down any dust, then rake up the leaves and rubble.  It was his ritual.  It was our childhood paradise. Lake Wohlford Website My Lake Wohlford Map Link I’m standing with my back to the lake looking up to where the trailer used to be.  I know where the trailer was, but the ground has been reconfigured so there is not a specific spot to point to.  (The Lodge is off to the right.)It was right up about where that dark building in the middle is now. The lodge is still there, looking mostly like it did then.  (The lake is off to the right.) The restrooms are still on the left as you go in (and they are still TINY). The old wraparound wooden porch has been enclosed.  Here is a photo of how it used to look.  (This is the side facing the lake.  My current picture was taken from the left side of this view.) The interior looks about the same.We toured the lodge and talked to the people inside about how it was sixty years ago.  None there knew it then, but they were kind enough to gather for a few stories.  They didn’t know about shaving off the top of the neighboring hill to make the airstrip.  They didn’t remember Earl. Dad would go out fishing in the boat.  The kids that didn’t go out with him could watch the lake in the afternoon and run down to the dock to meet him when he returned.  Trout, crappie, and bluegill on a stringer.  I remember going to the fish house to clean fish more than I remember actually eating them.  There were bass in the lake, as brother Bill can attest.  Other fishermen fished for catfish, but we didn’t.  We saw catfish catches at the afternoon fish cleanings. There were heavy wooden rowboats for rent.  Dad had a couple outboard motors he’d bring with him, or leave there, to mount on the rental boat.  I remember an old silver Neptune with the spinning flywheel on top that you wrapped a rope around, knot on the end of the rope hooked in a notch, and pulled to start.  The other, more sophisticated motor was a fully enclosed Mercury.  That one had a pull handle with a retractable cord.  Very cool.  Not everyone had a motor.  Some rowed. We walked across the road and down the shoreline paths to the lake,  to the dock,  the dam, and the shoreline there where I had to run away from a rattlesnake,  and the rocks we used to climb on to play and to fish.  (Some of the rocks are closer to the water than this one.)(Sometimes the water was closer to this rock.) It all seems smaller now, no surprise, but still very much the place I remember.  This revisit of such a time so long gone by was wholly engaging.  I got lost in it.  It was profound for me, and it struck Judy the same way, even though it wasn’t a part of her childhood.  She felt mine as I relived it. 

It was an excellent routine

 But there was a stumble on the dismount. According to the surgeon, the hand operation was a roaring success; a perfect 10.  He took out the arthritic bone that was causing the problem, harvested a tendon to loop through the base of the thumb bone and attach to the hand.  Problem solved.  He talked to me, said to see him again in two weeks, finished his day, and went home. The recovery time stretched on and on.  From its original estimate of 45 minutes, it dragged on for several hours, with them periodically explaining that they just needed a little more time to get her stabilized so they could move her to recovery, stage two, where I could go back with her.  I waited in the waiting room.  Patiently.  Until it was clear something was up that shouldn’t be up.  Up until then they thought they had a rule that visitors weren’t allowed back to the area where Judy was recovering, but it turns out they were wrong, and I got to spend the rest of the time with my wife in recovery, stage one. When they did the surgery, they didn’t put her under general anesthetic; they just sedated her lightly to minimize recovery time, and gave a block to her arm so she wouldn’t feel anything.  Nothing unusual; this is just how to do an operation like this.  For the block, the anesthesiologist locates a bundle of nerves in the shoulder with ultrasound, and injects anesthetic around the nerves that control the arm, to put the nerves out for a few hours.  They discovered during recovery that they not only blocked her arm, they blocked a nerve for her right lung.  When she was waking up and recovering, she wasn’t very alert and wasn’t holding oxygen very well.  It took a long time for her lung to wake up and stabilize.  By that time it was getting late and she hadn’t been stable for very long, so they admitted her overnight for observation. Maybe we needed a reminder of how old we are.  The nice young nurse checking us in was asking questions and filling out forms.  Some of the answers had already been filled in and she was just confirming them.  When she got to the drug allergies section, she read the answers and asked out loud, “What is ehther”, totally mispronouncing ether. “Ether.”  “You know, the thing you inhale and it puts you out.”  “The anesthetic they give (gave) you to take out your tonsils.” Ether has been gone so long she had never heard of it.  She’s a registered nurse, and she had never heard of ether! But I digress.  Back to the story at hand.  We passed an uneventful night kind of sleeping in a hospital room.  I got the comfortable chair. Judy got the comfortable bed. The doctor gave us the all clear at 6am, and multiple tedious hours after that (It always seems so easy to get into the hospital, and so much harder to get back out!), we finally got the I.V. out of Judy’s arm and made the three hour drive to pick up Henry, get some prescriptions filled, and go home.   Now Judy has a splint on her arm and drugs in her system.  And meals that normally would look like this. Get delivered to Judy looking like this, so she can eat them one-handed . 

Henry

 He likes to stuff himself into that little box he doesn’t really fit anymore. It’s not like he doesn’t have other places to lie down; including a nice big puffy dog bed.