I don’t want to eat hot stuff. I let the morning cup of coffee sit for twenty minutes before I take a sip, so I won’t burn my mouth. I don’t eat a hot dinner until it quits steaming. Sometime I can get Judy to put my food on a plate, then finish up everything else before she serves herself, so I can eat my food at the same time as hers. But spicy hot? I crave that tabasco burn. More is better. I want to feel the residual burn in my stomach when I’m done too! Judy, who wants her food and coffee as hot as it can be, wants nothing to do with spicy hot.