Free at last!

 Tomorrow, Tuesday, was to be the big the day.  Six weeks from the surgery date.  No more neck brace.  I can drive again. We didn’t wait until Tuesday.  Sunday is the day I declared my freedom.  I took off the rack. In the rack is uncomfortable.  Out of the rack is comfortable.  We went for a drive (I drove).  We birded for a couple hours, drove some more, then birded some more.  It felt awesome. We’re still careful; I won’t do any heavy lifting or strenuous exercising until after the 3 month mark, but we’re through with the neck brace.  I haven’t tested the limits of motion, I’m not going to do anything extreme, but left and right feels pretty good.  Up and down is a little more difficult, but I can look up and down all I need to see birds so I’m good. The scar is kind of lumpy, but no big deal.  (It’s a little hard to shave around.) Besides, I hear chicks dig scars. It doesn’t hurt.  Nothing hurts.  This is great.  

Alex update

 Final regular meet of the year.  The Colorado Open at the Olympic training center in Colorado Springs.  It was a big meet.  Lots of kids.  Lots of states. Alex medaled in all six events.  He took: 1st in vault.  Personal best.  12.7 on a 10 point scale.  (extra credit for bonus moves.)1st in rings.1st in floor.2nd on pommel. 1st all-around.  Personal best.  63.3 on a 60 point scale.And his team finished 1st. Floor:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cgyYB6GPKas&feature=youtu.beRings:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJrfU3ZO2jk&feature=youtu.beHighbar:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNuyn8Sxp3M&feature=youtu.beParallel bars:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoZUv-me82w&feature=youtu.bePommel:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgXQ1YCHsbg&feature=youtu.be He had a break-through day. Next up, State Finals later in March.  

On the night before our wedding

 Judy’s mom had “that” talk with her about sex.  Judy shared it with me. She said Judy would put on a negligee and get in bed.  I would go in the bathroom and get ready. A negligee.  Okay.  I get that part.  Not really necessary, but not a problem.  Getting in bed.  Yeah.  That works. Fifty years later, I’m still in the bathroom wondering what it is I’m supposed to be doing to get ready…